My vagina still hurts?!


Question: My vagina still hurts?
I lost my virginity early last night, it hurt quite a bit during, although there was no blood until i went to the toilet about half an hour later, it didn't hurt much again until later on last night, a little this morning, then since about mid-day i've been in constant pain, i looked in the mirror and there is a small cut like right at the bottom of the 'opening' (not my hymen). My boyfriend is quite big and I am quite tight, it even hurt when he fingered me, will it always be this painful or will it get easier?

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Don't worry, it will get better I promise! When I first tried to have sex we couldn't even get his penis inside of me. It took me months of trying to actually have sex and then when we were able to it hurt. Then like a fool I wanted to try to have sex the next day/ My boyfriend did not want to because he knew that it would probably hurt me and he was right, My vagina was still a bit sore so we couldn't even finish. Then I waited a week or so because my period came and the next time we did it, it was a little bit uncomfortable but it was better. And it kept getting better. May I suggest you guys try lube? It would make a world of difference. Since he is quite big and you are still tight I think lube would really help. Practice makes perfect. The more you have sex the better it will be. If you are like me it will hurt the first couple times but then after that it will start to feel much better. But if I were you I would wait a while to let your vagina heal. Whenever you have sex make sure to use some kind of protection like a condom or birth control to protect against pregnancy and a condom to protect you and your partner against STIs. Good luck and stay safe!!!

Me



OUCH. Yes, it sure hurts.
Don't have sex again until it's completely healed. And be sure you are ready for sex whenever you do. Properly engorged vagina and lubed up. If there's not enough lube due to factors such as hormones, use something like Astro Glide. NEVER have SEX withOUT being PROPERLY LUBED!!! You run the risk of abraisions that can become infected. If you're properly engorged, you can feel it.. you'll feel 'heavier' down there.. and horny!! lol
Most likely it'll become easier by the way. Otherwise nearly 100% of women would've never had more than a few sexual encounters.
And ALWAYS urinate right after sex. Don't wait more than a few minutes. You can get urinary tract infections when any bacteria goes up the urinary tract.

Me and nearly every woman!! lol



It won't always be painful, no, but if you're tight, you will always be tight until you have a baby, and your boyfriend will always be quite big.
So, make sure you heal up alright (maybe go to the doctors, just to take a look, you don't want an infection) and when you've healed up, take it slowly. Make sure that you're lubricated enough, use an artificial one if you're not, and ask him to take it slowly and it will get better and after that really nice :).



He probably got you too hard because he's big. It will probably hurt again if you are small. He might not be the right match for yu. Some women prefer thick and others small. There is also risk of infection if you got cut.




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