Should I leave him I need advice (is this situation abnormal)?!


Question: Should I leave him I need advice (is this situation abnormal)?
I'm 24 and I have had about 4 intimate partners. I recently started to date this new man he is 28 years old and divorced. When we had intercourse for the first time I noticed his "member" was the smallest Ive seen from my other partners. Anyways we had intercourse and i could not feel him inside of me. I could feel him going in but once he was inside of me I had no sensation all I could feel was his pelvis against mine. I FELT AWFUL.

We tried doggy style and that felt slightly better but Is it normal to not feel the "member" missionary style? I asked him if we could try other positions and he asked me "what type of freak are you!" I felt awful. (NOTE we have been dating for 6 months and he only wants to do missionary and dogie)

also to note that that per my previous partners that have told me that i am "tight" so i know it's not me and also to add it has been months for me


is it normal to not feel a man "inside"? I feel so bad

I know too big hurts i have had that..but this man is small that i feel no sensation

Also If i can't feel him inside does that mean that he does not feel my "walls"??????????

Answers:

Im sorry for your situation. I will try my best, from a guys point of view.

I think he was very wrong you say, " What type of freak are you". That is not nice at all, and you could quite easily, break him down, by mentioning his member.

But its good of you not to be saying anything.

To be honest I had a spiteful gf, who attacked me, and my member, which was hard to deal with. AT the time I would have quite easily got my girth increased through surgery. But now, I found if you want more feeling ( as the female ) you can get your guy to wear slings, to increase his girth, and allow for more feeling for you, and even more length without having to go under the knife.

The link - http://www.tickleberry.co.uk/c/cockbonda…

I dont think you should feel bad. But I think he does not seem to understand, and to call you a freak is not nice of him.

The decision has to be yours. I would say - sit down in a private place with a pen and A4 piece of paper. Draw a line in the middle, in the left, write down the points you dont like about him. On the Right write the good points you like about him. Which ever has the most might help you with your decision.

But to have doubts does seem to be telling you that you are not into him. ( That is your Sub conscious )

I hope this helps. If you need more help just get in touch.

http://www.tickleberry.co.uk/c/cockbonda…



It sounds like the sex is really important to you, if sex is the basis of the whole relationship then yes you should leave him because its sounds uncomfortable and not very enjoyable. If you have other feelings which outweigh the bad sex and make being with him worthwhile then you will probably have to settle for a bad sex-life.



This guy can't help what nature gave him, but if you're already feeling like this, then it's best to move on. And DON'T tell him the truth, just say you just don't think this will work and come up with a good, plausible lie. He doesn't need his ego destroyed...though he probably is already aware.




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