How do you get over the "awkwardness"?!


Question: How do you get over the "awkwardness"?
I'd like to become very comfortable with my own body, etc. But I feel so awkward when it has anything to do down there [vagina] or anything. I don't even like looking at my own boobs, naked, etc. I have confidence but I really avoid the subject all together when it comes to sex, and just being really comfortable with your womanly parts. I'm 16 years old btw. And everyone my age just seems so comfortable with their EVERYTHING. How do I become this way?

Answers:

I used to be the same way. Then my boyfriend and I gradually started exploring one another's bodies. The further our physical relationship progressed, the more comfortable I became.
Now, I'm not telling you to go out and find some random guy to fool around with (lol), but that's how it happened for me.
I was reading an article once and it said to become more comfortable with your body, you can do things around the house naked, and just get used to yourself.
I still feel gross sometimes, but then I just think of one redeeming quality, and I get over it.
Good Luck :).



Im almost 17 and im the same way. I know how you feel. I am definitely confident in myself and have self esteem but i still feel completely awkward when it comes to sex. Im sure time will make things less awkward and if not i dont know what i am missing anyway ;) Good luck girl :)



masturbate in the dark.

not only do you not have to see EVERYTHING, but it's more sexually stimulating, and you can learn to get more comfortable and know what you like and don't like.



Hey girl! It is fine to be uncomfortable. You don't have to be like anyone else. But if you want to then you can just look in the mirror and get used to your body. It isn't something to sweat about!
Good luck!




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