Is it normal for a 17 years old girl , she never masturbates and never had an or!


Question: Is it normal for a 17 years old girl , she never masturbates and never had an orgasm?
i am a guy
i met a 17 years old girl
she is my best friend and we talk about everything
so we talked about sex and she told me that she doesnt watch porn , never masturbates , never had an orgasm before .
i was freaked out , is that even possible ? i asked her why have you never had an orgasm , and she said that she never had the need to .
but she said that she knows how guys look like down there and knows about sex .
is this normal to girls ?
cuz as a guy i cant even hold myself , i masturbate alot and i cant really imagine how i would feel if i stopped masturbing for just a week .
can girls control themselves more than guys ?
is she lyin to me ? i dont get it cuz she says she always sexts with a guy but how can you sext and not have an orgasm ??
i need honest answers am really confused

Answers:

First off, calm down! There's no need to be freaked out; your friend is just a rare sort. Up until last September, I was very much like your friend. I never watched porn, never masturbated, never had sex, and never had an orgasm - the picture perfect virgin, if you will, and I was twenty-three. However, I knew the male anatomy very well and I did know about sex, both of which I used to cover the fact that I was a virgin to avoid being made fun of (it's not seen as a cool thing). The sexting could be a cover to diminish her squeaky clean record; less chances of being made fun of and all that. Or, she could be sexting just for the fun of it; that it a question I can't answer. But, the whole deal is rare amongst males *and* females nowadays, but it's nothing to get freaked out over. Some people don't feel the urge as strongly as others, some aren't sure if its something they want in their life, and some are just waiting for "the one". Also, bear in mind that some view masturbating as sex, so they won't do it until they've become active. And, no, it's not that females can control themselves more; sexually active women tend to be hornier than men and can be *a lot* pushier about it too. I know I'm always in the mood and trying to get my boyfriend going is like trying to start an unruly chainsaw (bearing in mind that he's 20 and I'm 24).

I hope this helps you! Don't be freaked out. Your friend's not a freak or anything; she's just part of the very rare crowd that hasn't felt the need to sexually explore herself or someone else yet.

23 years of experience.




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