Does it hurt a lot for the girl to have sex for the first time...?!


Question: Does it hurt a lot for the girl to have sex for the first time...?
thats what i heard i want to know why and how long does it take to get used to sex. or does it depend on the person?

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Well, this is from my experience:
It hurt a lot for me the first time, but not so much that the pain was unbearable. You get used to it every time you have sex. It starts hurting less every time & starts to feel really good. But then again, it depends on the person just like you said.



Sex should NEVER be painful - whether it's the first time or the millionth time.
The idea that it hurts is myth, although it's possible it doesn't have to be painful.

If a couple don't understand why pain may happen it means they can't avoid it, and often if a girl experiences pain she'll tollerate it thinking it's normal, then tell others the myth is true based on experience rather than facts, thus the myth goes on, and thus why knoweldge is so important.

A virgins body is no different to a non-virgin, the penis can fit into the vagina during sex because when aroused it naturally opens, lubricates, relaxes and almost doubles in size, a vagina can handle a baby so can easily take a penis as it's elastic so it will stretch then go back to original size. The vagina doesn't need to 'loosen' - the idea that the vagina becomes loose during sex is utter nonsense, it's a sexist idea used to scare girls out of having sex or having too many sexual partners by implying their vagina would show they've been sexually active - there's no truth to this at all.

f a virgin still has her hymen in tact - which is uncommon - this can be torn during sex, but it's just as likely that it will not tear as the hymen is flexible so can stretch to allow the penis through without tearing. Even when torn it can hurt, can feel pleasurable or feel like a release in pressure - most women's hymens tear multiple times in their lives and goes unnoticed, and any pain can be prevented if it's stretched to avoid tearing.

If a couple are inexperienced they may not understand this or they will rush foreplay to get to the main event, but foreplay makes sure penetration is possible and makes sure it's pleasurable. Lubrication helps too if not wet enough, it's not a replacement for foreplay but part of safe sex as if penetration is difficult it's not only painful but can damage the vagina so increase risk of STI's.

Emotions are a huge part of it too, many girls may not be ready to take that step or may not fully appreciate what it means, it's something you can't quite grasp until you're had the experience, so they may find it hard to relax. It's also true that if a girl expects pain she will tense up so making penetration difficult.

First time with any new partner can be awkward, and sex can change a relationship, so trust and respect are vitally important to make sure even if sex isn't as expected it is still not a terrible experience. Demand safe, pain-free pelasurable sex by talking to your partner and educating yourself, don't just tollerate painful or unenjoyable sex, a good first-time will help put you on the right road for a good sex life.

Ready or Not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/boyfri…

From Ow! To Wow! Demystifying Painful Intercourse - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pink/f…

First Intercourse 101 - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual…

A guide to loosing your virginity - http://the-clitoris.com/f_html/female_vi…



No. Read the answer above - that is just an unfortunate myth.

However, minus from the above answer the part about emotions - that is also a myth.



If you haven't been loosened up then sex for the first time can be very painful. Try inserting fingers or bananas to get ready.

Experience



Well in depends on the girl, my friend said that her first time was super painful but by her second time it felt good.



it depends on if the person has torn her hymen or not and how big the guy is




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