Is this normal for a women/girl? General tips/advice/help for keeping clean down!


Question: Is this normal for a women/girl? General tips/advice/help for keeping clean down there for your first time?
I've got a few little questions, but i'll start with the first :-)
So i'm 15 years old, and for a while now i've noticed that i usually get in my underwear like a white kind of goo? I know it might sound disgusting! It doesn't smell bad or anything, and as far as i know i've got nothing wrong with me that may cause that. It's just making me feel a bit uncomfortable, especially as recently i've been getting quite intimate with my boyfriend and it's probably not a very nice thing he'd wanna see or whatever. Is that normal? and what can i do to prevent it?

Another thing is, me and some of my girl-friends where talking the other day about when i women fingers herself. And i have honestly never done it, purely because i didn't think it was normal, until i found out that it apparently is. I have tried it since then, but i can never seem to find where to put my fingers, and i seem to be a bit tight down there? Being a virgin i know i am going to be, but i get conscious for the day that my boyfriend fingers me and well, yeah, he finds it too tight or whatever. Is it where you put a tampon? I wear tampons and sometimes it can seem a little tight down there to put that in. It never hurts though.

Last of all, as i've previously said, me and my boyfriend have been getting intimate recently, and after his easter holiday we're thinking of having sex for the first time. I've spoken to my one close friend about it and tips and stuff (She's done it with her boyfriend and they do it on a regular basis) and so she's gave me some tips and stuff, but personally i don't like to talk in that much detail with her, for my embarrassment and hers!
I just want to know:
- What ways can i keep myself clean down there for a long time?
- It might be at my house and i've only got a single bed (Well, its a bit bigger than a single, but not a double) and so i feel really weird about doing it at mine just in case its not big enough if you get me?
- How can i tease him and make me want me so so much that he'll be really turned on?
And basically any other tips and advice you think i'll need or want to give - Useful of course. Thank you :-)

Answers:

"stuff and things" has already answered about the white discharge, so I'll skip that. It's not my area of expertise.

With regard to fingering, the most important area to concentrate on is the clitoris, which is not on the inside anyway - it's just above the opening.

For keeping yourself clean, just make an excuse to pop along to the bathroom just before you start, and wipe it. You can also use this as an opportunity to brush your teeth (minty fresh), check your hair and other aspects of your appearance.

Single bed is fine, provided it's against the wall to minimise chances of falling off. My wife and I shared a single bed for the first three years of our relationship.

Regarding how to turn him on, take a look at these previous answers I've provided - they seem relevant.

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…

... hmmm... there was another one, but I can't find it. Gist was, for your first time, choose a position where you're on top so you can set the pace. Your first time won't be comfortable, and will probably be somewhat painful, so it makes sense for you to be in control. Afterwards, have a little nap together for a couple of hours, then go again for a second time, maybe with him on top, and it will hopefully be a lot more pleasurable the second time around.



I MAKE my woman friend wet, so I can lick her.



This sounds extremely fake and trollish, but I'll bite.
The goo in your panties is from ovulation, or just the normal vaginal secretions of fluid. Unless it smells bad or turns an odd color(green or yellow), it is completely normal.

The fact that you don't know how to masturbate or can't understand the difference between where you put a tampon and where a penis is supposed to go(which is the same hole) should indicate to you that you are NOT READY TO HAVE SEX. If you were 15 and you could use the proper names to describe your vagina, labia, urethra, etc., then I would answer any and all of your questions without feeling bad. But you need to talk to your mother, read books, anything you can to educate yourself on your body and how sex is supposed to work. You will end up pregnant or worse.

You're not too young to have sex, just too dumb.



1- The discharge is completely normal, and this may sound gross, but guys like it when a girl is wet.
2- As for the sex, DONT let him or anyone pressure you. You are still young. Im almost 15 and I almost lost my virginity to my ex-boyfriend. he promised he would be there for me and wouldnt leave me, and he did leave me. he doesnt love me, thats why i stopped myself from having sex with him. I regretted it at first, but Im so happy that I did wait to have sex until I get married. Your virginity is a very precious thing. You shouldnt give it away to just anyone. My best friend is 16, and ever since she lost her virginity no guys want to date her. most guys want their girlfriend to be "pure". your friend may not be a virgin but that doesnt mean that you have to lose your virginity too.
Sex is fun, but its definitely not all its cracked up to be. PLEASE wait until you find "the one"
. there are billions of different guys out in the world. if you were to get pregnant, you would be stuck with that baby and you arent old enough for a child, neither is your boyfriend. just remember one thing- guys our age want one thing- SEX. thats it. there are very few guys who actually want a mature,real relationship based on love, not sex. having sex with him wont make him love you. if hes pressuring you, then dump him. You arent old enough to have sex. you barely know what masturbation is and about tampons.i was in the same exact situation as you, and i really thought this guy loved me and I almost gave it all away to him, but i didnt. why? because i know that someday when i get married, i will give my husband my virginity. when you get older and marry how do you think your husband would feel if you had slept around with other men? just because other people have sex and it sounds normal doesnt make it right. i know this isnt what you wanna hear right now, but please think about this. its a serious decision to make, once you lose it you cant get it back. Your boyfriend & you are obviously still immature (i dont mean that in a rude way).
wait until your older and have some self respect.

but its your choice. just please be careful and think about it.
i really hope that you realize what I mean.

Good luck<3
- ashlyn hope -

Tons of expirience.




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