I'm 19 and I'm never sexually aroused...?!
Question: I'm 19 and I'm never sexually aroused...?
The only time I've ever felt anything (and this is just a tiny little twinge) is if I'm reading or watching a movie & the characters have a moment. Not even at a sex scene... Just cute little romantic moments.
Is there anything you can suggest to up my sex drive? (I have a doctor's appt. soon and plan on talking to her about it, but I want your opinions.)
Answers:
It looks like you ned a lot of romance to get there. Not only direct sexual action.
Otherwise you are asexual.
Why would you want a higher sex drive? It's not like there is a law that says you have to want or have sex. Maybe you're just asexual. You wouldn't be the only one.
In any case, please don't do anything sexual unless you really want to. It's useless and pretty nasty if you do it against your will.
Don't try to change yourself just to feel more normal. Normality is really overrated.
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice…
Try all kinds of masturbation or just touching different part of your bidy and see if it helps. Email me with questions pacyber19@gmail.com
Is this my wife posting here, but using a young age?
I'm 18, was highly sexual but after a single birth control shot, lost all of my libido. The reason for this was that the shot (Depo Provera) released synthetic progesterone, lowering levels of estrogen and testosterone which are responsible for arousal. This relates to you because maybe there is a slight chance your sexual hormones could be delayed longer than most women your age. There are products like pills that can help balance and develop sexual hormones, and there are also natural aphrodisiacs. I have a friend who is rarely aroused unless she is drunk. Drinking is her method of getting turned on. I'm not suggesting you try drinking though.
Since you mentioned you get turned on sometimes, another idea of mine is maybe you aren't comfortable in your sexuality yet. By trying different masturbation methods you could develop a desire to think of sexual things. If your past experiences have been unpleasurable and it didn't feel right, it could also be that the person wasn't right for you.
By speaking with your doctor she'll help you figure out other ways to up your sex drive. My ideas include natural aphrodisiacs you can buy or experimenting with techniques.
Experience