Does it hurt for girls and not guys?!


Question: Does it hurt for girls and not guys?
To have sex.... plz help

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Having sex for the first time CAN hurt, but doesn't always. A lot of that depends on whether your hymen has been broken before (through exercise, use of tampons or insertion of fingers or objects), and how physically ready you are. The hymen is usually a thin piece of skin that covers the entrance to the vagina. It normally has a small hole in it to allow for fluids (such as secretions and menstrual blood) to pass through. When a penis goes into the vagina, and the hymen is intact, the hymen tears, which CAN (not always though!) cause some pain and a little bleeding.

By physically ready, I mean levels of arousal. If you are aroused or turned on, the vagina will secrete a special thick lubricant, which makes insertion of a penis much easier. Also, if you are relaxed, your vaginal muscles will be relaxed, making it easier for a penis to enter.

The best ways to achieve proper arousal and relaxation is by focusing on foreplay (cuddling, kissing, touching, oral sex etc), rather than concentrating on "I MUST have sex". Let penetration be a natural progression, rather than the sole focus. There are lots of articles on the internet about foreplay, giving ideas and suggestions on things you and your partner can do for each other to make it a much more pleasurable first experience.

Please make sure you practice safe sex, and use a condom to prevent pregnancy and disease There are a lot of myths out there that just aren't true. Some of these myths are that pulling out before the guy finishes prevents pregnancy, and that you can't get pregnant the first time. This is NOT true! If you have sex without a condom, you run a serious risk of becoming pregnant, and it just isn't worth the stress and concern. Again, there's lots of sites on the net about how to use a condom properly, so please do your research before having sex.

Registered nurse



For the first time, it usually hurts for girls. Some girls won't have any pain, some girls will feel a little discomfort, and some will be in pain. The first time, or any time, should not hurt for guys. They are just sticking their penis in there. Nothing painful about that unless they have an infection in their penis.

For girls, it may even hurt the second and third time you do it. But the pain goes away after a few times of doing it. Of course, it will hurt anytime you have sex if you are not lubricated enough down there. There must be lubrication to make it easier and gentler for the penis to enter.



from statistical data, yes, it hurts for girls but not guys. The part that makes everything hurt is the breaking of the hymen, and a LOT of girls already break theirs before having sex (such as from horseback riding). It truly depends on you, but it shouldn't hurt for guys, as they have no hymen to break.



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yes it herts girls.
the first time u will bleed

experience




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