My mom is trying to destroy my relationship now that im pregnant & Im starti!
Question: My mom is trying to destroy my relationship now that im pregnant & Im starting to have second thoughts?
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You are 25, you are entitled to your own life. You will make mistakes in life, but your mom's job is not to tell you what to do at 25. She can give you advice, but not order you around. She seems like she is just really worried about you moving that far and taking that big of a step in life. I agree with Amanda in that it's a good idea to give London a trial run, nothing permanent yet. He sounds like a nice guy, a bit pushy and emotional though. Go with your heart and don't let anyone get in your head. I would wait to tell him about the pregnancy till you're sure he's what you want. Make sure this is a risk worth taking. Go easy on your mom because she just doesn't want you getting hurt, though we all get hurt sometimes anyway :p. I wish you and your baby all the best and a wonderful life :). Hope this helped and good luck!
You shouldn't have been dating someone who is 14 years older than you...
These relationships always end poorly.
Hmmmm.... The way I see it, you have two options; either you follow your Mother's advice and leave him (possibly terminate the pregnancy) OR you go with your possibly hormone-addled gut and marry him.
If you go with your first option, you stand to lose not only a possibly great & loving partner, but the father of your child. From the sounds of it, your mother still sees you as her baby, and the thought of you running overseas to get hitched terrifies her. If you choose the second option, however, you may end up trapped with a man you & your child would've done better to avoid altogether. In a year and a half, how much do you really know about him?
Before you decide, ask yourself this; have you seen all of these supposed properties yourself, or did he just tell you about them? Do you know EXACTLY what he does for a living (the Russian mob does exist)? Would you trust him enough to depend on him? Does he even want kids?
If you can answer these questions positively (and with NO hesitation), I would go for it. But for safety's sake, do a background check.
I dont know, he may love u honey But U know Mamma's always KNOW's Best!! Think about before u move all that far and pregnant u know maybe go stay with him for a couple weeks and then come back! see how it goes! BEST WISHES FOR U AND BABY! ** he seems a lil pushy and that touchy feely will work ur nerves as the yrs go by I bet!
The child you are carrying is as much his as it is yours. He certainly deserves to know about your pregnancy.
If you truly are 25 years old, you are not a child and should be able to make your own decisions. Don't let your mother influence you so much. Perhaps she's jealous of your relationship?
Tell the father and take things one day at a time.