This is a serious question i really need help. idk if ive ever orgasm-ed?!


Question: This is a serious question i really need help. idk if ive ever orgasm-ed?
everyone says "oh you'll know trust me" well im not sure if i have so that's a good indication to me that i probably haven't and i want to know how can i reach that climax during sex. i am a girl so don't give me hints for men unless its something i can tell my boyfriend to do. btw i am 18 so don't start with that "you are probably too young and immature to even have sex" i know people that have been having sex for a while and they say they have never climaxed and it frustrates me cause i want to know what its like. its not that my boyfriend doesn't give me pleasure i just don't think ive reached that point

Answers:

it's hard to climax, I'll admit that one, my boyfriend and I were having sex for about a year before I'd ever come close.

the easiest way to get yourself to that point is clitoral stimulation. the first time I ever came with my boyfriend was when I was on top, I was grinding my pelvis into him to my own pace and I just kept going.

You'll know your starting to come when you start to feel your body getting really... tingly... Your head starts to feel fuzzy, kinda like a TV with bad a bad signal. After you start to feel like that, don't change a freaking thing. just keep doing what your doing, then you'll kinda feel like you jumped into a pool of water, very relaxing, but powerful at the same time.

That's really the best way I can describe it. At first I didn't know what was going on, I felt way different then when I regularly had sex (HA and I thought I had been climaxing the entire time!).



tell him to give you oral sex play with your clit and try to find your g spot (its a few inches deep and towards the front of you



Masturbate. It will help you learn your own body better.



Well women like romance and that means that you start with a romantic meal with some wine, candles, soft music, lots of foreplay. Women like to be teased too, try a feather for tickling. Tell your boyfriend to go real slow and work his way down until he's finally giving you oral sex. Most women LOVE oral sex. Another approach to take is to do it yourself to find out what feels good for you (then that information will help you when you are with your partner). I would highly recommend a vibrator of some kind. I've read numerous posts from women who said they could never reach orgasm until they tried a vibrator. Visit an adult toy shop. Don't worry, there's no stigma attached these days and the vast majority of their customers are women. You could also do a bit of research on female masturbation online.



The vibrator answer is a good one to start out with so you know what it's like. Unfortunately most guys or should I say some guys don't know how to make you climax or if they do they are more interested in themselves climaxing or they think they know and think they have made you climax when they haven't! Once you use your vibrator and you finally know, the next time you are having sex with your boyfriend show him where to touch and how to touch you to get you there. Or if he is unable or uninterested then when he is doing his thing wet your fingers (by licking them) and caress your clitoris at the same time he is penetrating you until you climax.This does work better if you have had some clitoral stimulation beforehand. He will probably be able to feel your climax also and might be more interested in joining in and getting you there himself next time. I have found that I enjoy penetrating sex much more after I have climaxed once,then can go on to climax some more. Sometimes it can be like a perpetual orgasm that last a while if all the conditions and the partner are right so to speak.And some guys just don't seem to have the right touch no matter how hard they try. A shower nozzle with a hose attached set on full throttle can also be used in replace of a vibrator and no one finds your toy hidden somewhere and you come out all clean. You may wish you had a bigger hot water heater using this method. Hope this helps you and wish you many happy orgasms.




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