Girls Health: My niece had experienced something awful...?!


Question: Girls Health: My niece had experienced something awful...?
Today, like 6 hours ago, the girl came up to me crying, here's our conversation and u have to put into consideration that she's 14 years old;

Me: "hey Beth, what's wrong?"
Beth: "I am bleeding...., just don't tell mom, and that's not the date for my period to come"
Me: "well, is that normal bleeding? or in excess? does it hurt?"
Beth: "only drops, but it covered my pants (panties but in our British), and no it doesn't hurt but I am afraid this is not period bleeding"
Me: " what is it then?"
Beth: " Promise mom won't know about that!"
Me: " I promise you, beth go on, u r spooking me"
Beth: " I masturbated yesterday, i used a marker, and i couldn't fine a hole, so i thought of perhaps pressing firmly"
Me: "Dear Lord! oh bugger! u broke your hymen??"
Beth: " I am rather afraid that's a fact!, OMG! what on Universe am I going to do?!!"
Me: " Okay, okay.. calm down... things happen, alright? it's okay take it easy, go put a pad till the bleeding stops and i will look into that, okay?"
Beth: " Please do!"
..........................

Now ladies, what do you think? Is it going to heal? or is it broken forever?
U have to consider the fact that In our English traditions, this should be broken only after marriage.
Plus my sister (her mom) is very pious, and if she discovers that, the girl is buried alive.

Thank you so much...

Answers:

Don't tell her mum, but it proberley won't heal but these days hymens are broken during everyday activities/sport.

Breaking your hymen while playing sports is VERY possible. Most little girls break their hymen while riding bikes, climbing trees, straddling fences all the time, etc. The only thing it truly takes to break your hymen is severe pelvic impact or trauma. Which is why girls mainly break their hymens during contact sports. Fall out of a tree, or slip down a few branches, and you've got no more hymen. Ride your bike through a big hole or over a huge bump, or even just fall off flat on your butt, you can break your hymen. The first time I had sex, I didn't have a hymen, and there had been nothing in my vagina before then (no fingers, no tampon, no toys, nothing). I assume it was because I've fallen on my butt enough in the dance studio, and when I was younger, I was always riding my bike over the roughest terrain possible (I always had to out-do my brothers).

Just breaking your hymen does not automatically make you lose your virginity. Girls can break their hymen using a tampon, but they can still be virgins.

Info above from another yahoo question, one of the answers



Hymns do NOT heal, at all...EVER
There's surgery, but most doctors won't do it because it's not safe, and well...It's for reglious (using that lightly) purposes...Religion stays out of medicine.



....once its broken it wont heal. Maybe she didnt break it all the way. She will probably bleed for a few days. For beth's sake, i wouldnt tell her mom.



it will be broken forever i think.... i dont think they heal back sorry....



Her Fault



Even if you avoid masturbating (which is very difficult I mean come on lol) or using tampons the hymen can still be torn through exercise, or just gradually worn away over time from period blood seeping through it. That's why it's silly to use a hymen as proof of virginity. Some girls are born without one at all! If neither of you tell Beth's mum then there's no problem, unless she actually gives her regular hymen inspections which would just be damn creepy.



Most young girls break their hymen long before intercourse. It can happen with masturbating, sports, exercising, injury etc..

I'm pretty sure I broke my hymen when I was about 6 years old after an injury on the playground. It doesn't mean I lost my virginity at 6.

No, it doesn't grow back. If you chop off your arm, will it grow back?



The hymen is a thin membrane that can fully or partially cover the entrance to the vagina. It's not going to heal over again, and it's very very common for people to break theirs. They can be broken not only through masturbation and sex, but also from gymnastics, horse riding and other vigorous sports and from using tampons, so many people break theirs without even realizing. In fact, many girls break theirs whilst their still very young, while playing with their friends, doing sports, climbing trees or falling over so breaking it is nothing to be bothered about. Even though it won't heal that's not going to cause any problems for her and it's perfectly natural for it to be broken.

I appreciate that for your english tradition (I'm British too) you don't believe it should be broken before marriage but there's no way her mother would ever find out so I don't really think it'll be a problem for you. :)

Hope I helped! xx



Girls hymens can break during sport like gym, dancing, cycling horse riding etc. so it's not that big of a deal.

I understand no sex before marriage but for their hymen not to be broken till marriage is a little excessive, she's going to be fine and her mum doesn't need to know when her hymen breaks either.

I also think the title 'my niece has experienced something awful' is a little over the top too. Chill loads of girls hymens break during sport as I said at the beginning.




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