How can I make myself orgasm?!

yes it is easier to learn how to do it yourself first. first you need to find your clitoris. right at the top of your slit, where the 2 sides meet, under your belly button, slide your finger beween the lips and feel around at the back for a small lump. Its like a small pea and will tingle when you touch it. lick your finger, and rub the lump gently in small circles, keep rubbing, you will start to feel like you really need to pee. you dont need to pee, the feeling will pass, keep rubbing. Next you will feel a weird feeling in your tummy try to hold that feeling in and keep rubbing, when you cant hold the feeling in any longer, let it go. To orgasm during sex you must also stimulate your clitoris, we do not orgasm by vaginal penetration, we orgasm by clitoral stimulation