I can only come with a vibrator, is there something wrong with me?!


Question: I can only come with a vibrator, is there something wrong with me?
I can't come with an actual man, I've only came with a man 2x - and one of them was because he went down on me for half an hour. Is there something wrong with me?

Answers:

"Is there something wrong with me?" I don't think so. Your mind displaced the source of pleasure...You'll have to rethink the way you obtain pleasure, how you obtained it, what you use for that, and who or what has induced that in you.

You should discuss this with your partner, and both retrain yourselves in order to reestablish a healthy link to plenitud. There are ample ways. Do not use pornography, either, or you WILL compound the problem even further.

The only way to explain this is with an analogy: you can have a tea of coca - made out of one or two leaves - to sooth the headache and induce relaxation. All of a sudden, you snort 10 gramms through the nose and you overdose! In those 10 gramms there were - crystalized - 5 kilos of coca leaves!

Excitement comes when you stimulate your clit, orally, fingers, etc. All of a sudden you put an electric drill there. Whaoooo! You understand?

Even the use of a vibrator is not bad IN ITSELF. But it must be used with reservations and care.



Obviously you can with a man, because you have. Maybe you are just not comfortable with the men you have been with, or they don't care enough to take their time with you. There is nothing wrong. Some women just take a long time and a lot of patience. A good man will care and will do that for you.



There is nothing at all wrong with you. Most women have problems reaching orgasm with sex alone and need some kind of clit action at the same time. Just when you and your man are having sex either you or him rub your clit and you will probably reach orgasm.



part might be mental and you will learn in time. the other is you are only as good as your partner. There are things you can learn to make it work better, last longer and be more intense. But you must educate your partner as well.



No it generally takes women longer to get off, especially if u have a lower sex drive. It takes longer to grow excited.



no everybody is different
sex is complicated



Theres a problem with your man.



No, it just means that your clitoris needs a bit more simulation that the men you have been with haven't given you.



yes, you need a new man




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