How to break the hymen?!


Question: How to break the hymen?
I know this probably looks weird, seeing as this is the first question or answer I have posted on this account, I have another account, but I do not want to post it on there as I'd be embarrassed if my contacts saw it :P
I'm 17 and a virgin, I feel ready to have sex though, and my partner's been really understanding every time we've tried to have sex, but he's 6'4" and 11.5 inches and it's really painful, every time we've tried I've had to stop him, which is really embarrassing... it's not because I'm not "wet" It's just really uncomfortable. I was wondering if there was any way to break my hymen without it being so painful? or should I just man up and let him do it quickly? Sorry, I don't know who to talk to about this sort of thing.. Sorry if that's a little descriptive.. xxx

Answers:

Sorry to burst your bubble honey but your first time having sex HURTS. With or without a hymen. In fact it's not only the first time that hurts, but it can hurt for months...depending on your amount of 'stretchiness' and his size. It can hurt when you change partners, or even a different times of the month. Sex is NOT fun for a girl the first time (or for quite some time after)- if you're afraid or you think it hurts then I don't think you're 'ready' at all and you shouldn't let him push you into "manning up to it" at all. Your first time is quite a memory- when you're as old as me, it will be a DISTANT memory but still- and why would you want to have to FORCE yourself into it? Wait until you're older, more mature, and more stable with the boy- he's waited this long what's a little longer? If he doesn't wait, then you know that he wasn't really into YOU so much as sex. (Plus your mother will be really happy to know that you didn't have sex at 17)- 18 is just the same as 17, and 19 even more so.

I'm actually NOT trying to scare you about it hurting though...it does hurt- A LOT. But when you know you're with the right person you don't have those second thoughts. Be patient, just continue to "do" what you're doing now without thinking about going all the way- and when the time is right you'll do it. (Without trying to injure yourself first)



Masturbate, or if you use pads for your period, switch to tampons before having sex.
I broke my hymen by just having sex and it wasn't that bad. But, my partner wasn't
nearly a foot long, either. I guess the best way is to man up and deal with it. The pain is quick.



as mary said masturbate i mean it should have broken the first time u had penetration... and if he already had you know u know well you technically not a virgin so to say.



There's a good chance that your hymen is already broken, use of tampons, fingering, riding bikes, riding horses, gymnastics, can all be responsible for a torn hymen. What's more painful is the stretching of the tissues down there when they've never been stretched so far before. Take things slowly, make sure that you're very aroused and relaxed, don't think about the pain and breathe through it. Ask him to go slowly and, instead of pulling out when you're in too much pain, ask him to stop for a minute, relax, rest, and then let him push slowly in a little more. Try using a little lube on him too, while you're wet, he's not




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