Got freaked out when I saw my boyfriends penis for the first time?! :S?!
Question: Got freaked out when I saw my boyfriends penis for the first time?! :S?
Anyway, things got heated today and I ended up seeing...all of him. He's my first serious boyfriend, and this is the first time I've seen a penis in person.
I have no idea why, but I did get kinda freaked out by looking at it. Not like disgusted or anything, but it did freak me out. Is this normal for girls to feel a little weird the first time they see one? :/
Actually, its pretty normal for girls who have never had sex before to be freaked out by seeing things like that for the first time. You don't know what to do, which is also known as inexperience. If you are ready to have sex for the first time, you'd still be nervous, but, willing to see what its like. Seeing that nothing happened, you aren't ready yet. which is okay. But, if you are willing to see what that's like, I think that maybe you should talk to your boyfriend about it. He should be understanding enough to talk to you. tell him to be slow and bring no pressure to you. you should be able to do it when you're ready.
seems normal to me? i wasnt freaked the first time but i know some people who were. it'll probably go away with time.