Can You Have Multiple Orgasms (serious answers please)?!
Question: Can You Have Multiple Orgasms (serious answers please)?
No male believes I can do this even though I can. My erection is still hard (really). My sex life is not real good because my girlfriend (I love) is not as attractive as the porn stars (was addicted as a child). I always finish off in the restroom (I lie and say I am taking a bath). We have sex 1 hour per day though. But it's only about her. I don't want to tell her though because it will hurt her.
I don't know how to handle this sadness. I wish she could make me orgasm as much as I need (at least 8-10 times a day) but that would make the sex 2 hours every day. I don't have that type of time except on Tuesdays and Fridays.
What should I do? Should I leave her and find someone I can be compatible with (sexually)? Or should I stay with her?
I ask here because the men never give serious answers.
It's not very common for a man to be able to do that, I'll admit - that would definitely explain the skepticism on most people's part. Plenty of oooh-ing and ahh-ing is given towards the subject of women being able to have multiple orgasms, and indeed, it seems to be more common in women than in men.
A few comments in your question are problematic, though. You're comparing your girlfriend to a porn star, love - very, very, very few women that you come across will look like that. Those women are paid to have a "perfect" body meant for flattering close-ups, and it requires a lot of upkeep that only a woman in the entertainment business has the time or money to do. Her body is her career, so she has no choice but to keep it absolutely flawless, hairless, and smooth. So if you're not able to feel sexually aroused around a normal woman, you might as well stick with your hand.
What it comes down to is this:
- she can't get you properly aroused because she doesn't look like the women in porn
- you are lying to her every single time you have sex
- you want to dump her because she can't have sex as much as you'd like her to
What you can do is this:
- stop comparing a normal woman to a porn star - you might as well compare a teenage boy to a professional bodybuilder
- stop finishing off in the bathroom - you're running away from the problem
- BE HONEST WITH HER. Instead of dumping her and essentially putting all the blame on this women you claim you love, how about you shoulder some of that and admit that perhaps you have a problem as well?
You have premature ejaculation issues... either that or one very muscular arm and one very sore dick.
Also, your a superficial jackass for not accepting your girlfriend over some plastic sluts who **** for money.
Stay with her because a relationship should be built on more then sex. If you do leave her, your a jerk and you don't deserve the love of a good woman.
It's people like you that make people like me ashamed to be a man.
If you ''Love her'', then you wouldn't find another gril. And if she loves you then all you gotta do is tell her. Because girls will probably be fine if you tell them. I bet she would rather have sex 2 hours a day, then to learn that you broke up with her just because you want more sex. Just tell her.
You're probably a sex addict. I know that sounds terrible, but it's on actual disorder and it's not your fault. I'm not completely sure of the treatment for it but I would assume some type of therapy/drugs. Ask a doctor.
Cool! You can always masturbate in between sessions :)
Repost with your secret.