I'm going to be blunt. (mature girls only.)?!
Question:
I'm going to be blunt. (mature girls only.)?
I am 15 years old, I don't have a boyfriend, and I am going to save my virginity until I'm married, but I'm curious about sex. What do I do. I've tried masterbating, but i don't think that i'm doing it right. Sorry, i'm so embarrassed to say this stuff. I just hope that my parents don't see this question on parental controls because I'm scared to ask them. I don't want to feel dirty and immoral.
Answers:
There is no "right" or "wrong" way to masturbate. I like to masturbate under cool, soft sheets, but we're all different. Start by rubbing your breasts and stomach a little bit, relax yourself. When you get to the vaginal area, experiment. Put a gentle unscented lotion on your fingers (it won't hurt you), and rub the outside of your opening, rub your clitoris. Feel your vagina get wet and insert part of a finger inside of your opening if it doesn't hurt and see how it feels, maybe move it around. As for a little bit of information on other women, most women have orgasms that come from directly rubbing or otherwise stimulating the clitoris. Do it for as long as you like, it's perfectly normal and fine to masturbate for an hour or longer if you want. Masturbation is all about experimenting and finding out what your body likes, so there is no wrong way to do it!
In case you aren't sure of the exact location of the clitoris, here is a link:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/clitoris...