I am in my 50's and hot as i was in my teen's and 20's?!

I am in my 50's and hot as i was in my teen's and 20's?

I have been married all my life since i was in my 20's and after my kids were born my libido settled down and eventually came to a stop and i actually went frigid for many, many years because of my husbands infidelity. I stayed for the kids. Now i am in my fifties and i feel so...''hot'' needy for sex that it is driving me crazy as i am still married...getting a divorce...and believe in fidelity as long as your married. Even though we are getting a divorce i must be true to my ethics and beliefs. Is there a reason i feel this way? is it hormones?..I do like a guy who turns me on...literally but i have never done anything sexual with him. Is it lack of sex and the buildup? I don't know..can someone give me a clue? i feel so sexy and young and wonderful and ''ready'' for new life. Is it the thought of divorce and freedom? okay..i will stop..give me your thoughts..thanks.

When I got my divorce papers I felt like a huge rock had rolled off my back. My interest in life perked up and I felt like a whole new and happy person. That's what happens when a long dead marriage is finally severed.
I think its joy.
I don't usually tell someone to go against their ethics and beliefs, but you aren't going to be cheating if you have filed for divorce you don't have to worry about custody games, so have your fling, life at our age is too fleeting and you have already wasted so much of it...enjoy all life has to give.