First sex....help plz? i couldnt make it...?!

First sex....help plz? i couldnt make it...?

hai. i m virgin, 20 years old...i love my husband a lot, he too loves me a lot..but, yesterday, when we tried for our first sex...it was so horrible....it hurt me like anything even when he was fingering...he fingeres for a long time(it hurt me and hurt me) later, he told me help me to push my penies...but, i couldnt help for scare and he couldnt do that because my vagina got lack of space for his penies...i mean, his penies even couldnt enter.....my vagina was not spacious enough, he tried 5 times but he failed(he tried a llot doing fingering)....my husband said, its becuase u r a virgin...but, whats the solution for it???
anyone has experience like this?? how u have over came it??

If a woman is not relaxed and interested in sexual activity, the vagina will not accomodate. When the woman is comfortable with the act and aroused, the vagina will widen and secrete lubrication. Make sure that any sexual attempt is done when you want it. Trying to force it to happen will make it worse. If you are aroused and stimulated, give it a try. It will still cause pain with the initial penile penetration. If penetration is still unsuccessful, you may need to see a gynecologist who can determine if you have need treatment.