Masturbation?!

Masturbation?

okay for the longest time ive thought it was so gross for girls to masturbate. and i feel dumb for asking this question but now im really getting to the point where i want to try it, but as soon as i get to i feel creeped out and wonder why i just cant do it, and i know most girls do it. and waht could i do to make myself orgasm? by using thigns that i would have at home.

2 weeks ago
would a massager work? like a back massager?

and what is a website i can go to that could tell me things i could do?

Masturbation is not dirty, and it is actually quite healthy (also effective treatment for a migraine headache!)

Just try using your fingers on your clit, don't worry so much about penetration... when you're starting out, you should focus on learning your own anatomy & what feels good to you.

If you have a showerhead at home that is capable of being hand-held, then that can be a very good experience... also, if you have a hot-tub or jacuzzi, you may be able to position yourself in such a way that the jets offer a very nice massage of your clit (make sure you're alone!)

Your best bet is to go to Spencer's Gift & buy a cheap battery operated vibrator.

Most women do not actually orgasm through penetration, but only through direct clitoral stimulation. If you dont know where your clit is, then check out this diagram to get an idea:
http://health.yahoo.com/media/mayoclinic...

Good luck!
*a woman who can give herself an orgasm has a much much higher chance of being able to orgasm with a partner.... not that you should jump into that so quickly, but when you are old enough & mature enough to be sexual with another person, you will know what you like & enjoy already!

EDIT
Yes, a back-massager that vibrates would work pretty well... that was my first masturbation tool!

There is a great book:
"For Yourself : The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality" by Lonnie Barbach
http://www.amazon.com/yourself-fulfillme...