Lost my urge. . .?!
Question:
Lost my urge. . .?
Since I had my daughter almost 4 years ago, I haven't had the urge for sex. I can be 1 week up to 1 month and I still would be fine without it. I feel bad for my husband-bless his heart he tries, but I don't feel the same way about sex. I wish I could. I've seen those commericals-maybe I heard them on the radio, about a pill women can take. I'm pretty sure that I don't want a pill to make me desire sex. We are talking about having another baby, what will it be like after this one?
Answers:
you need some time alone with your husband. kids bring on alot of stress and sometimes one parent resents the other for different reasons. Wife may resent the husband for not helping enough and the husband JUST DOESN'T GET IT and expects her to raise the kid, take care of the home, cook, laundry and get at least a part time job.
I would lose interest too, being a mom is hard...but try and work on the relationship with the hubby. Drop the kid off at your parents or with a trusted friend, go to dinner with your husband, talk, have a couple of drinks, light some candles and get to it!! Pick the kid up in the morning!!