A question for mothers?!

A question for mothers?

It's been a year since my wife had our second child and she has snaped right back into shape. At 5'5" and 115 pounds she only weighs 10 more pounds than she did when we got married. She has only a very few stretch marks and her boobs have sagged a little due to breast feeding both kids. I think she looks better than she did before kids, ya know more hips a little bigger butt, great stuff to me. I tell her all the time how beautiful and sexy she is. Here's the problem. She won't wear a bathing suit, won't wear longera(I know it's spelt wrong, sorry) She won't even let me see her naked in the light unless I sneek a peek. So besides telling her all the time how sexy I think she is what else can I do to make her love her body as much as I do? She says I tell her she's hot because I'm her husband and that doesn't count.

I understand what she's going through. I feel the same way about my body. I have two kids.
I'm petite and everyone "thinks" I'm happy b/c I "look" so great after having to kids. But the truth is I feel ugh. I just recently started wearing a bathing suit again. I think the reason I did is b/c my boyfriend knocked some sense into me when we were at the beach. He made me take a look around and look at the females wearing bathing suits. Some were a perfect 10 and some were well let's say not so much the 10!
This is a hard one. But I just suggest you ALWAYS remind your wife how beautiful she is. Buy her a pretty night gown that makes her feel sexy and isn't kinky. The more she feels sexy the more kinky she might want to be! :)
Take it slow see what happens.