Pls help.. give me tips//?!

Pls help.. give me tips//?

HI!.. pls help.. i fear sex... i just cant,, im 26 married, virgin,,,can i get drunked and let him in.. as i get stone when it comes to go in.. i want a solution i tried,,, but at last i start crying as i cant. my hubby is very understanding.. help so that i dont feel the pain and it can eaily go in.. help urgent

2 weeks ago
i try everything ,,but i just get angry when i cant,, he is so caring,, but i feel bad that i cant,, and he doesnt want to force me for things...i will a try more few times..

Has something bad happened to you in the past to make you fear sex? Or were you brought up (like me) believing sex is dirty and shameful???

Sex is the most natural thing in the world - not only to enable us to have children, but to strengthen the bond between a couple. Within the bonds of marriage, it is so special I cannot begin to tell you!

You're too worked up about the whole thing to relax, and if you are uptight, penetration will hurt you! A small amount of KY Jelly will help this. When a lady is relaxed and wanting intercourse, her vagina produces fluid which acts as a natural lubricant to allow the penis inside. But you will not really produce this if you are not turned on.

The first time you make love with your husband will be so special - please do not get drunk because you will not really be able to participate fully in the experience if your mind is not clear.

Start off slowly, just kiss and cuddle one another. Then very slowly build it up.

Maybe you could go and see a sex therapist who can find out what your negative feelings are, why you're so scared, and help you overcome this.

I am glad to hear your husband is patient - see, he really loves you.