Has anyone been through the same?!

Has anyone been through the same?

hello right heres my story, me and my partner had unprocted sex at the start of jan, that was the 1st time we did, i took the morning after pill but it didnt work, i didn't know i was pregant untill i was 9 weeks, when i lost the baby, i had amisscarriage i was so messed up. it took me ages to get over it! I'm still trying to get over it. since the end of april me and my partner made a decision we were so upset that we lost the baby we would try again, since may we have been trying so far ive had 3 periods. we've done everything we got told to do.my recent period came 8 days late, we thought our dream was coming true but it didnt in the end. we r worried something is up with us or its just our luck? is there anyone that has been in our shoes? please help me! i just want to talk to someone whos been through what we have. thanks x

If you are trying to conceive because you feel guilty about losing the last baby which you seem to have not wanted (you opted for the AM after pill), you are getting pregnant for all the wrong reasons. Maybe you should seek some couples counseling to help you work through this issue and determine if you really are ready to have a child. It is a huge commitment and expensive as well as long road if you split up and have to raise a child by yourself. I'm not saying don't get pregnant, just make sure you are both ready and for the right reasons.