My parnter doesnt want to have sex with me, what should I do?!
Question:
My parnter doesnt want to have sex with me, what should I do?
I live with my partner and we have a 15 month old son .The problem is that he doesnt want to have sex with me. He NEVER makes the first move, if we do have sex it is ALWAYS me that has initiated it.This has gone on since before our son was born. I have tried to be sensitive and not put pressure on him because I know that just because he is a man it doesnt necessarily mean he is up for it all the time. I also understand that he works hard and works around 40 -50 hours aweek. However I work too and run a house. I dont even feel like dressing up for him anymore beause I am fed up of rejection.I have even tried waiting for him to make the first move in his own time and I waited months and month and gave in and came on to him. I have tried to be open and honest with him but he refuses to talk abut it saying that it is in my imagination.We have both put on weight as my parner gave up smoking-I have reasured him that I love him and still find him attractive. What should I do?
Answers:
it sounds like you guys may have to think about this situation.
this could be a long term problem.