Virginity?!

Virginity?

me and my boyfriend mess around and stuff. he puts his finger in me, but i take it away before he really does anything. i'm afraid i might lose my virginity if he puts it in me. his finger is kinda big, manly. can anyone tell me if u can lose ur virginity this way?

2 weeks ago
i know that losing ur virginity is the act of sex. i meant me bleeding. can i bleed if he fingers me?

If you're talking about your hymen breaking, which is probably what you're getting at, then yes, a finger can break it (or a tampon, or a woman who is very active in sports can also break her hymen). Hymens usually only break when a penis is inserted into the vagina, but it can happen in the above ways as well. If you don't want your hymen breaking, then you might want to avoid this. If it breaks, you will likely know because there may be some pain and likely some blood.