Sex and S&M....safe but still kinky?!
Question:
Sex and S&M....safe but still kinky?
So I like kinky sex, but I'm not totally into the full on whips and chains....what are some safer, tamer things I could do instead that goes along with that theme? That are still kinky of course!
Answers:
BDSM doesn't have to be about whips and chains, but rather about an exchange of power. Bondage is always fun. Dressing up and roleplaying falls under the category and is absolutely wonderful! Blindfolds are great, especially when combined with some other things. Simply commanding or being commanded what to do can be a huge turn on, too. My favorite is when my husband is in Master mode and when he ties me up nice and securely and blindfolds me and proceeds to caress all those ultra sensitive places and I don't know what to expect, nor can I get away from him. This takes lots of trust, though. I know that my husband does this for my pleasure and his....not to hurt me in any way. Read up, honey, there are many, many, MANY books on the subject!
Have fun, happy playing!