Please help, am i still a virgin?!

Please help, am i still a virgin?

i never had sex , ever. but please,only mature answers- i think my cherry's popped already. i don't ever remember anyone touching me and i've never had sex with myboyfriend. i never touched myself before in that area. i found out when i was 13 becuase i learned about it in school. but i don't know if it's normal for it to be like this. i;m scared becuase i dont know if someone touched me when i was little and i had no idea. what scares me is that i have stretch marks on my skin on my inner thighs .i told my mom and she sed it's because i lost wight very quickly. i havent gone to a gynocologist because im afraid she'll say im not a virgin anymore and mymother will think its because i had sex with my boyfriend but i didn't. or she might think i touched myself but i didn't. there then leaves the question if someone touched me and i have no idea. im scared. but i don;t know what to do. i toldmyboyfriend. we've been together for 2 1/2 yrs,he sed 4 me to go to the doctor. im scared to. help?

2 weeks ago
i;m almost 18 now.

Okay.

Firstly, this question largely depends on what your definition of what a virgin is. Generally speaking, virgin refers to someone who has NOT had sexual intercourse. Not if your hymen is broken (which is a common misconception).

Stretch marks have NOTHING to do with whether or not you have had sex. They are due to losing or gaining weight very quickly and the majority of girls have stretch marks at least somewhere.

There is no reason why - from what you have said - that you need to see a gyno, although becuase you are 18 you should have a pap smear soon.

I am concerned though that you are asking whether or not you were sexually abused when you were younger - that in itself makes me wonder if maybe you were, because that should not cross your mind unless there is something in your conscience saying that you have been.

Your hymen can be broken from just playing sport - masturbating (but don't be ashamed... about masturbating - it's normal) or some unknown reason.

Please stop stressing, you are still a virgin because you have never had sexual intercourse. So take a deep breath and stop worrying!