???how to make your vaginal muscles not be so tense???!
Question:
???how to make your vaginal muscles not be so tense???
well tampons are a no for me lol, i don't get it. I'm not tense at all when i try, but somehow that area is, it's like it has a mind of it's own on what it wants to do. it's like that natural things it's supposed to do like self lubricating is a problem too. is there something i can do???
Answers:
You just have to learn how to relax those muscles. If you are really having problems you might want to try some lubricant. I used to have problems being tense, but after a while I just sort of got the hang of loosening up. Concentrate on it and relax, or if you think you're thinking about it too much and it's making you tense, think about something else while putting it in.