Just stuff...thats important in a teenage girls life...?!


Question:

Just stuff...thats important in a teenage girls life...?

Ok this sounds really lame but I think I'm having a "early life crisis". I was watching the whole of the 1st series of The O.C on DVD when I realised how much my life sucks. I wasn't comparing myself to the people/characters on The O.C but to my best friends. I don't really have many friends like 1-2, but they have everything going for them: they're skinny, have boyfriends, have jobs (I'm too young to get one though), do fine at school, have fine family life etc. I dont have any of that. I thought if I lost a bit of weight (I was 155lbs. = 70kg and now im 132lbs. = 60kg) that it would help but I dont think its helped anything but my health! I just need to know how to really live my life to its maximum. I'm bored all the time, lonely and depressed. I just need a life


thanks

Additional Details

2 weeks ago
Just for background info:
I'm a christian
I'm only allowed to do one hobby as of finacial reasons, so I do ballet a few hours a week.


Answers:

I just got through that recently. Everyone lookes better than me, they have no acne, more money, they're popular, everyone ignores me, school is going worse every day, i gain weight just by breathing.

This might sound ridiculous but i passed it by... stopping thinking about it. The more you think about it, you'll find more reasons (true ones or false) to reckon that your life sucks.
Find more reasons to believe that life is beautiful instead. Think about all those people out there who have no home. Who suffer of terrible diseases. Who have no family. Who cannot read. Who have no music, no TV or DVDs. Who have no money to buy a soda. Who have diabetes and can't enjoy a chocolate. You are so lucky to be alive! Go out with the roller skates all by yourself and meet some new friends. Get a pet that'll cheer you up - go out with it and meet new people. Watch funny movies and read hilarious books/comics. Don't spend time at the computer unless you have work to do (I'm telling you, the computer is one of the worst things in my life and it makes me lose touch with eveyone - paradoxal, I know). Call someone you haven't talked to in a while - maybe a former class mate or a relative? Go see your grandparents. Go swimming. Go to the beach. Enjoy a chocolate of something you haven't had in a while - don't think about the calories, real women have curves and don't suffer of cold in the winter. There are so many things to do and you don't realise yet!




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