I lost my virginity last night but why am I so freaked out?!


Question:

I lost my virginity last night but why am I so freaked out?

i lost my virginity last night but I'm freaked out because I didn't lose it how i wanted to...
I wanted to lose my virginity to my boyfriend but instead i lost it to a guy i met yesterday... I'm really confused right now and i don't know what to do because I'm stressing over it because i feel that I made a huge mistake I mean i jist met him. The guy didn't know that i was a virgin either so it hurted alot... and i don't know what to tell my boyfriend because he still thinks I'm a virgin and i know i have to tell him eventually. I'm also scared we used protection but I might have caught something or I might be pregnant because from what I've heard protection doesn't always work. I want to get on birth control but i could never tell my father how i lost my virginity and to who... what should i do about my boyfriend, how can i get over what I've done, and how can i get birth control without my father knowing?


Answers:

i'm sorry to hear about this. you know, i ended up losing my virginity to someone i didn't plan to, in a way i didn't plan to, and i was equally freaked out the next day. stuff happens... try not to be entirely too hard on yourself, okay?

as far as concern over pregnancy, diseases, and birth control look for the planned parenthood facility in your area. they will NOT tell your parents, unless your state has some law that they have to. its too soon to test for pregnancy or diseases, but honestly, chances are you are okay. now, thats not always the case. i know a girl who used a condom and got HPV her first time. just take a few deep breaths, forgive yourself and go to planned parenthood.

as far as telling your boyfriend, i'm sorry i don't have any answers for you in that regards.... you'll have to look within for the right way to tell him, but you are right that you need to let him know.

hey, feel free to email me if you need any more advice or just need someone to vent to, k? i'm here to listen.. and i'll be online all day because i'm at work until ten thirty this evening, and its only 10:50 am.




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