Out of control sexually active sister help!?!
Question:
Out of control sexually active sister help!?
You know how you always have that one person in the family who is hard headed well we have one too. Let me just get down to the issue. My 21 year old sister is very sexually active. We just found out that she has had gonorhea and chlamydia since october of last year. The doctors had been calling my moms house for a while for my sister but she never returned their phone calls. My mom got really suspicious when my sis started to get sick. So after 7 months my mom decided to open her mail and that is when she found out. We are so worried about her and she is obviously afraid to go and get treated. Trust me we have tried everything. I am scared that she might be in some serious trouble health wise. Our family really needs some help. Please only serious answers only this is a a serious issue.
Answers:
It is a pity that the parents of a 21 year old girl do not know the where abouts of their child. It is their irresponsibility that has resulted in this precarious situation. " Love" is a Divine medicine. Lack of it will tempt people to go after Sex. I am sorry to be more critical you who expressed helplessness and concern over the girl in question.
The fact that your sister is afraid to go to a doctor show that she is scared and desperate. You need your mother to have a close door discussion with your sister. She should be convinced that unless she takes the treatment, her life will be a misery. Once she accepts she should be taken to a doctor immediately. If she does not agree, arrange a consultation with a psychiatrist. Both your mother and your sister need counsellings and then alone they can get along later.
Family life is special. You must exchange your love and affection more often. Then , and then alone your can prevent people going astray. An everyday dinner table conference is ideal for such unity. Unfortunately, everybody neglect it.