Sensations during sex?!

Sensations during sex?

This is a little embarrassing to ask, but I've been wondering recently if there's something wrong. During sex, I don't feel anything. I mean, of couse, I FEEL it, but I don't have any pleasurable sensations during it. I've tried masturbation, but still, I feel nothing. I'm extremely worried that this could ruin my relationship and that I'll live my entire life without being able to enjoy sex. What can I do?

I hate to tell you, but some women never ever get an orgasm in their life. Sometimes that's just the way it is. Some can get it seeing porn (others having sex) but not when they actually have sex themself, everybody is different. If you tried everything you could, try going to see your doctor for a referal to a gynaecologist. To see if there is any physical abnormalities internally which could be causing a problem. The problem could be something as simple as a flap of skin or tissue, obstructing somewhere it shouldn't be.

Try different positions- using techniques from the kama-sutra. Sometimes it takes a lot of work for men to give their women pleasure. Or maybe he is just inexperienced. Try having him give you oral sex before penetration. Men can often feel sexual pleasure themself 7-8 times a day, easy. And don't always realise it can be a more complex thing for women. Though some men just don't care as long as they get what they want. But at the end of the day it should be pleasurable for the both of you.

Some women may have vaginismus. Which means the muscles inside the vagina tense up involuntarily before or during sex, making sex painful. Usually it's brought about by a fear penetration will hurt. If so using small vibrators and slowly working your way up to a normal mans size, may help you gain confidence. Undergoing counseling may also help.