OK i have a shaving problem. I need some good advice. question is below.?!

OK i have a shaving problem. I need some good advice. question is below.?

Ok, whenever i shave my where the sun dont shine (if you know what i mean), its ok at first, but then whenever it is touched by anything, it gets irritated and breaks out. Should i just stop shaving and find another way? Or is there a way i could prevent the breakout from happening? Im to embarrased to go have it waxed because then my grandma will suspect that im doing something im not supposed to be doing (which i am totally not. Im just 16). HELP?!

This is what worked for me, I can now shave down there anytime I want with no problems. I have sensitive skin, I found waxing hurt too much and depilatory creams can burn you.
Start buy trimming the hairs as short as you can. Hop into the shower or bath and soak the hairs with hot water for 5 - 10 minutes, this softens them and opens your pores. Apply shaving cream and using a new razor shave with the hair growth. Apply more shaving cream and shave again against the hair growth for a close and smooth shave. You might want to skip shaving against the hair growth the first few times if your skin is sensitive. Make sure you dry the area completely and apply Vagisil or any corn starch powder. The powder helps prevent razor burn, chaffing and ingrown hairs. Apply the powder before bed as well, and anytime during the day if you feel it's necessary. Try not to shave too often at first (once a week if you can) to toughen up the skin. Slowly work your way to shaving more often but you probably don't want to shave more than every other day.
Good luck.