I am TERRIFIED that I have HIV..is it possible??? What do u guys think??!

I am TERRIFIED that I have HIV..is it possible??? What do u guys think??

In my life I have had unprotected oral sex with 4 different guys..one time with each of the 3 and many times with my current boyfriend.The 3 guys never ejaculated but i now find out that they do not need to ejaculate for me to contract it?..And now I am going through issues with my boyfriend of one year. We have had unprotected oral sex frequently and unprotected vaginal sex pretty frequently but he has only "came" in me two or three times. But he goes to planned parenthood a couple times a year and has told me that he is HIV neg. he got testd a couple weeks ago. But now all this has been happening and I think he may have cheated on me which makes me think our whole relationship is a lie? Do you think he could have been lying about being HIV neg?He has came in me so that would mean if he has it than i have it.and even if it wasnt him it could have been one of the other 3 guys..can u get HIV when the guy does NOT ejaculate.i know ppl r gona tell me GET TESTED. i will but for now HELP!!

3 weeks ago
If he does not ejaculate in me than there is no chance of getting HIV right? that is where the hiv is..in his ***..not just on his penis..

3 weeks ago
okay but the only time i have had unprotected or sex at all is with my boyfriend that i am with now who i have trusted up to this point and he has been tested and is negative..the only reason im doubting things is because i found out about something yesterday that made me think he possible cheated on me.

You can absolutely get HIV even if the male does not ejaculate inside you. If you've had unprotected sex, you need to be tested. Go to a clinic like Planned Parenthood and get tested.

If you can't be responsible enough to be knowledgeable enough to protect yourself, you absolutely should not be having sex.

It doesn't matter if the only person you've had unprotected vaginal sex with is your boyfriend, as you can still get it from unprotected and even protected (though this is much rarer) oral sex. If you don't trust that your boyfriend is clean, you can request to see a record of his STD screening, and he should be able to somehow (even if he has to give the clinic a call) provide you with paperwork stating that he was STD free.,