Help! Mind blowing sex life.?!


Question:

Help! Mind blowing sex life.?

I am still new to sex. I am almost 20, and I have been with only two partners. I know we are probably still young, and possible not sure what we are doing, both of my partners are pretty expirienced though, however for some reason sex doesn't give me as much pleasure as other sexual things. My partner he enjoys sex alot, but i don't expirience that mind blowing orgasm. It does feel good, and i wouldn't say he doesn't take his time, becuase he does try to go for a long time, but I just don't feel this amazing feeling. Even when he fingers me or goes down on me as i mentioned earlier it feels better but still I don't have that great orgasm expirience and on top of that I can't "finish". Sorry for such explicit question, however is there anything I can do to expirience more pleasure and is there anything i can work on together with my partner and suggest to him.
Thank you


Answers:

Sounds like you haven't found your g-spot yet. Oh, we'll find it, trust me.

After you get warmed up, get on all fours with your bottom at the end of the bed. Rest you head and arms on the bed. Head down, butt up. It puts you in a more "open" vulnerable position to find the g-spot.

This is a great position for him to work on finger and oral play. Yummy :) When he's ready, have him insert his middle and index fingers (tips down towards bed) in as far as they will go and wiggle them to get comfortable. Once ready, have him use his two fingers and make a "scratching motion", (kind of like scratching the felt in blackjack to take a hit). It should be like him trying to close his finger (but he can't). He can also keep his fingers there and press the tips down (applying a little pressure) and move them from side-to-side, in a circular motion, combined with the scratching motion. It may take some practice, but eventually he will find your g-spot.

Tell him what feels good and what doesn't. When he hits the right spot, you will let out a moan before you even realized what happened. While he's doing all of this, use you free hands for clitoral stimulations.

If all goes well, you should have 3-5 solid orgasms, if not more. After you have them, stay there and let him enter. In this position, he can go deeper while your still stimulating yourself. Also, if your open-minded, a ring finger can be used in another obvious place for extra stimulation. Don't knock it, until you experience it.

If you don't find your elusive g-spot, I would be very suprised. I find my wife every time and still hear yelps and moans I didn't know she was capable of. Their subliminal thank-you.

Happy Experimenting :)




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