Men shaving and sleeping with a cactus?!

Men shaving and sleeping with a cactus?

What is the attraction of men shaving their pubic area to a female?
When I met my husband and we started dating he was shaving. Whenever we had sex it felt like a cactus was rubbing down there. It was not sensual to say the least. This was not after a couple hours but shortly after we got out of the shower. I finally had to ask him to stop shaving. He tried everyway possible to get it smooth but men's skin and hair just is not the same as ours.
My question is this, is everyone whose husband shaves sleeping with a cactus or was this a isolated freak incident that is unique to my husband?

3 weeks ago
yeah it is only after he shaved that it was prickly and it was that area at the bottom of the shaft that was the most irratating. I asked this question because I keep on seeing ladies asking how they can get their men to do this and I thought maybe I was missing something.

It never bothers me, until it's time to shave again. Not like it feels like he's a cactus,I find that his chin hair grows extremely fast instead.
But right after shaving his pubic hair, he feels fine for let's say 4 days.