SERIOUS ONLY my new friend is very large, and when we have intercourse it ends u!

SERIOUS ONLY my new friend is very large, and when we have intercourse it ends up being painful for him....?

its not that i dont get wet enough, he is just EXTREMELY large, and he said it makes his penis feel kind of raw afterwards. what can we do... i dont want to stop sleeping with him, just because its painful to him....

3 weeks ago
okay, sorry. no we are not using condoms... i think i may just be too small for him, is that possible... i have vaginally delivered 2 children, however, i am small in that area.... we have tried, just about every position... and still have the same problem, it is somewhat painful for me, but i can tolerate it better.

thanks in advance

Well if his description of what is happening to his phallus is "raw," it would lead me to believe that there is too much friction. While you may not feel that there's a lack of natural lubrication, it still could contribute to the problem. I would strongly suggest a water based lubricant.

If you're using condoms, I would also suggest getting some specially formed for more well endowed males, and put a drop of water based lubricant inside of the condom before he puts it on.

If you aren't using condoms, really try the lubricant and also try various positions. Certain positions will be more or less constricting, and find the least constricting one. That should help somewhat. If you're not in absolutely horrible unbearable pain, then the size of his phallus is probably not the primary problem, or at the very least can easily be worked around.