I cant orgasm tips anyone please would be very nice thanks?!

I cant orgasm tips anyone please would be very nice thanks?

Okay I have been seeing this guy for a while. He is the first person I have slept with. I have never had an orgasm. Is this normal? and how can I get one tips thanks!!

mate ive been married 10 years and not every time do i com. it depends on a lot of things like how relaxed i am, how tired and most importantly position and timing. and even then with everything perfect sometimes it just aint gonna happen. i can really enjoy my sex but i may not have a mind blowing orgasm at the end. when you have an understanding secure partner you realise that sex can go a hell of a lot deeper (excuse the pun). spend sometime by yourself and find out what you like, he wont know till you show him, then incorporate it into your time with him. another really good way is to put aside an hour where you can both touch each other only, no penetration , and im sure after an hour he would have hit at least one spot that would have made you shiver! then be brave speak up for yourself and say yeah i liiike that!