Should I tell my boyfriend?...?!
Question:
Should I tell my boyfriend?...?
I have been having a lot of trouble with bulimia I will eat a lot and then throw it all up. Its really time consuming and painful and its getting in the way because I feel a lot of shame. I couldnt call him for a while yesterday and of course he was concerned about me because I usually call right when I get off work. I felt terrible because I coldnt come up with a reason for why I left him in the dark. The last thing I want is for this problem to hurt him any more than it probably already has. Any advice please! Should I tell him about my bulimia (I feel in my heart it will help me quit the destructive cycle. How will he react? Will he be grossed out and not want to be with me anymore?
Answers:
If he is grossed out, then he doesn't care enough about you to be worth your time!
Someone who cares will give you support in ending this dangerous disease, not turn their back on you!
Most importantly, you need to tell your doctor, friends and family. Don't let shame get in the way of those who care about you being allowed to help support you! This is the time when you need that support the most! (Not to mention a watchful eye for if you relapse back onto this deadly path)
The BEST thing you can do, is to let others know. There is no shame in admitting that you need help; only shame in hiding it, or ignoring it.