Is is possible to never have an orgasm?!
Question:
Is is possible to never have an orgasm?
To be honest, I dont think I've ever had one... is this normal? Or maybe I have and it's just not all it's cracked up to be??? I just always heard it's supposed to be an "explosion" of sorts... not for me.
Answers:
I went my entire 20's without ever having one orgasm (and that's not to say I didn't try...) They are all they're cracked up to be, and if you don't know if you've had one you haven't had one yet...
Barring any medical conditions, assuming you're getting properly stimulated by your mate or yourself during sex, don't sweat it... you'll have one when you're least expecting it!
In the meantime, spend time masturbating... the majority of women that are perfectly "normal" sexually have their biggest, strongest and most consistent orgasms through masturbation. And the bonus to that is you get to find out what you like and what you don't like without any pressure (self imposed or otherwise) and once you're comfortable achieving orgasm through masturbation you can guide your partner and show him/her what exactly you like.
The website below is a really great source for information about sex, masterbating, female and male anatomy while still affording you some privacy...