How do you have an orgasum?!
Question:
How do you have an orgasum?
I havent had one yet and i have had sex like 5 times and i still can get off unless i masterbate.
Answers:
Well learning to have one on your own is half the struggle. You've accomplished that so you're on the right track. Now you know what kind of touch and stimulation you need.
The key is to teach your partner. They won't know how to get you to orgasm without so guidence. Everyone is different so you have to help your partner in order to help yourself.
Also, try different positions, especially ones that stimulate your G-spot and clitoris such as you being on top so you can control the pace, angle and depth. Its also important that you relax mentally.
Just play around and enjoy yourself. And make sure you aren't putting too much pressure on yourself or your partner. It will happen.