Am i okay?!
Question:
Am i okay?
I feel really fat.My butt is big.Im not very pretty.Im that type of friend thats always joking but i knoe how to shut up and tell no one of secrets im told of.All of my friends are real popular and hot.A couple of them are okay...But 1 is a great friend[lets call her D] shes always nice and shes trustful.My friend had a crush on someone and the went steady.But he dumped her and showed interest in D.She refused....Thats an example of her kindness.But she lives 5 hours away:(
My other friend shes my best friend...And shes is not as good of a friend i had hoped.
It seems as if my "good-est" friends all live away.....
I dont know if im okay should i change or?
And is it okay to have a big butt? :/
And is it alright to not bee skinny? ;/
And should i just change who i am?
Please help me...:/
Answers:
Everyone at some stage in their lives has a billion insecurities... I also have a fat butt, I have cellulite, pimples, big hips and thighs, and a million other flaws... But ya know something? Everyone has flaws... And even though you may look at someone and think they're perfect, they have just as many insecurities as you.
When you look at the skinny girls in magazines, you have to remember that they can afford personal trainers and surgery and that they are also airbrushed, also remember the tiny population of the people of the world that they represent. In answer to your question, of course it's okay not to be skinny, and under no circumstances should you change who you are.
I'm sorry you don't feel you have good friends, maybe you could join a club or take up a hobby where you'd meet more people from your area? I know I had horrible friends right up until the time I started college, usually as people grow up they grow out of that petty backstabbing and betrayal.