Boy friend does drugs..... help?!?!
Question: Boy friend does drugs..... help?!?
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Define drugs. lol
Well, he is twelve, so i dig why you'd be concerned. Talk to him about it at school. Just simply ask him why he does it. Is it pain, is it enjoyment, is it boredem? Analyze his reasoning n see if it's really because he is bored or is in pain or just plain likes the drug(s). The reason is most important. Judge from there. :)
Peace
If your boyfriend's parents do not give a hoot about him, and therefore will probably neglect him as far as medical needs if not getting him counseling, please talk with a trusted adult. Someone needs to contact Child Protective Services so that he can be in an environment that is supportive and with adults who can get him the necessary outside professional help that he so desperately needs.
This site has more information for those who know someone that is being abused or neglected: http://www.childhelp.org/pages/what-to-e… (when calling). The toll-free helpline is 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453)
obviously he shouldnt be using any kind of drug because he isnt fully matured, but you should try talking to him in person, not over facebook because its not going to do anything but if you actually sit down and talk with him about it and explain to him how you feel maybe that will help, but in all reality this isnt a relationship, if he is 12 i imagine you are somewhere around his age, this is just puppy love. dont try and grow up too fast, trust me its not fun. good luck kid.(: hope this helped you out some.
The Police, Children's Help Phone (For the drugs AND neglecting parents), your parents, any adults of the slightest authority, the interweb, etc...
There're a lot of sites and people out there that can help you.
One. Relationships that are through facebook and only facebook isnot a relationship... Its desperation. two, talk to him bout it, he probably does it BECAUSE his parents dont care bout him.
Ask him to talk to his school counselor. They will be there to help him and not judge him. If he doesn't want to stop doing drugs, you need to find yourself a boy who is drug free.