What's wrong if u have sex and it doesnt feel good?!

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He's simply not tapping it right. Give me a shot and we'll see whats up.

It is important to know your own body and what kind of touching feels good to you. It is also important to be with a lover who you love and trust and who loves you and cares about your safety, health, happiness and pleasure.

You need to enjoy ther person's company and have good communication with them so that you can talk to each other about what you like and don't like. It is important not just to jump in to having sex with a person but get to know each other first.

Once you have established some love, trust and ability to communicate, spend considerable time just kissing and touching and getting used to each other that way. Learning each other's likes and dislikes along the way before you start to have sex so by the time you get into that territory, you trust and care for each other, you each know something about how the other likes to be touched, you have established an ability to communicate clearly and honestly about things and you have extablished a mutual concern for each other's health, safety and pleasure.

Anyone who is not willing to put in the time to experience this process with you is not worth having sex with.

If your a woman, it can be that your worried about having a baby or disease and that feels dry and irrationaltion because your not aroused?If you are attracted to partner, then, maybe not enough togetherness for play for you.
Or maybe, your not very sexual due to low energy or health issues?
Or haven't met the right person to turn you on, and your going through the motions of love making out of expectations from either partner or both, which makes it into a thing of giving and pretntion?
Can be any to all of these.
Can get blood tests to see if your iron and vitamin D3 is ok, which can effect energy a lot . Also B12 stores.

It sounds like you might not be relaxed enough.Enjoy the experience and let yourself go a bit more and you should start to feel better about it.

You're doing it with the wrong person (people).

you must be doing it wrong ...or someone else is