I'm feeling so lonely?!
Question: I feel so lonely a lot of the time. Like, I'm okay when I'm with my friends at school, but when I get home I feel so lonely, and somewhat depressed. Lately I've been feeling more lonely/isolated with my friends. I feel like I really don't know them. I can't really go to their house, have pets, or talk to people on the internet(I find it creepy in a way...). Does anyone have other ways to feel not so... Lonely or sad? Like writing and stuff like that. Thank you guys so much.
Answers: I feel so lonely a lot of the time. Like, I'm okay when I'm with my friends at school, but when I get home I feel so lonely, and somewhat depressed. Lately I've been feeling more lonely/isolated with my friends. I feel like I really don't know them. I can't really go to their house, have pets, or talk to people on the internet(I find it creepy in a way...). Does anyone have other ways to feel not so... Lonely or sad? Like writing and stuff like that. Thank you guys so much.
Yeah, you've got some gaps where you're not connecting well enough for your inner needs. How are things at home? Are you close to your parents and do you have brothers or sisters? You make yourself sound as if you're an only child. But it would help if you'd pay attention to your talents and interests. Like maybe join a club or group of some sort with those same interests. And maybe you need different friends that are better suited for you than the ones you have now. Sometimes we just make the wrong choices in life and your feelings are trying to guide you that you've got to change something for yourself. If you like writing, take classes in that subject. Open up your horizons. Music lessons would be an awesome way to get a different perspective. Learning to play a musical instrument even increases your intelligence as it makes your brain form new neural pathways and you get smarter! But don't give up. Think hard, you know your interests best. Follow up on them and see how you could express them more! Good luck!
I don't know how u feel about religion??? And I hope I don't affend you but you can have a relationship with Jesus Christ and if you don't no who he is then get you a bible and read all there is to know about him.. When you find him, you will never be alone...
I know how you feel. I've felt alone my whole life. My dad isolated me... abused me sexually and I'm just starting to confront all of this now, in my late 20s. Yeah, it's a *****. My entire life I've been living a lie, he's been cheating on my mom, and not had any friends, and used me as a target to be friends with. He would never let me play with my friends when I was younger, it's ALWAYS about him! It's scary to me.. I always felt when I was a little girl that I was supposed to steal him from my mom, or that he didn't want me with anyone else..
anyways, I've lost all my friends, and have really been VERY hurt for a very long time, and again, extremely alone. So, I know about that.
i have my guitars.....11 of them......i have a very demanding career in aviation and play in a successful regional band in my spare time......but don't even really hang out with the guys in the band other than to play shows......between the two of those things that leaves little to no time for friends....much less a girlfriend or anything like that.....and due to the security sensitive nature of my job (in the airline industry) it's even harder to find people i can trust to be friends with, if i could find the time in the first place.....so i have my music and my guitars....they are the best friends in the world...they do what i tell them when i tell them and they never say no....lol....but it does get lonely most days....
I agree with Allison. If you read your bible and pray about your situation and ask God in your life to help you with it, he will. I will pray for you, please try to get involved in some positive activity in your community or church, if you go. Everything will be alright.
Hi Emily... well that must be a problem for you. Then you dont we be friends.... if you dont mind. Its just simple, when ever you feel lonely just write to me sure i will write you back. Why dont we make a talk through writing mails. hope it works thta would make you happy
just keep busy and do things you enjoy doing----even a walk around the neighbourhood can be interesting and definitely better than not doing anything and just suffering. Helping other family members can also be a good way to forget your own problems. Doing more school work is another option Reading ----frequenting the library understanding how other people cope as we are all sometimes lonely however it is a luxury to have the time to sometimes contemplate this problem !
You should join a club either physically going to meetings etc., or online and talk to people about your hobbies or interests. People with similar love for something you love, is quite rewarding. You can share your knowledge with them and plan on going to shows involving your hobby.It can be cool wearing your clubs crest and feeling you belong. I joined a paranormal investigative club in the US and I live in Canada. We've shared our stories and pictures and its great.....so good luck..have fun.
You have used the right word in your explanation. Depressed. You are depressed as I have been all of my life and I am 58 years old. You feel like you are lonely with or with out your friends or family around you all of the time. You need to see a doctor and see if he/she may prescribe something that may help. Depression may drive you to suicide if not properly treated. I know.