When your 15 and u life seems to be already going down the drain how do u comeba!
Question: last year i was dignosed with ocd and deppression and anixtey i had to drop out of school b/c i cant take it im doing online corses but im really behind im lost most of my friends to this my parents seem to hate me...iv let my body go..i just seem to not care if i even get my high school degree and iv always been the smart person thats going to be someone in my family but for the past year iv dug myself into a whole so deep is sad....iv lost alll my friends b/c if the deppression..i got fat i seem to be stuck at school..im not envolved in anything..i just have to will power anymore...everything is just wrong..i feel stupid and worthless...im not the same person i was...and i fear i never well become of anything b/c of this
Answers: last year i was dignosed with ocd and deppression and anixtey i had to drop out of school b/c i cant take it im doing online corses but im really behind im lost most of my friends to this my parents seem to hate me...iv let my body go..i just seem to not care if i even get my high school degree and iv always been the smart person thats going to be someone in my family but for the past year iv dug myself into a whole so deep is sad....iv lost alll my friends b/c if the deppression..i got fat i seem to be stuck at school..im not envolved in anything..i just have to will power anymore...everything is just wrong..i feel stupid and worthless...im not the same person i was...and i fear i never well become of anything b/c of this
Has your physician ruled out thyroid problems? I know that the weight gain might be because of the medications you may be taking, but low thyroid can cause both weight gain and depression, as well as lethargy (feeling lazy and, often, sleepy), and difficulty focusing and thinking. A fairly simple blood test is all that is needed to find out if this is part of your problem. Also, it is not unusual for teenagers to feel depressed and worthless. Don't beat yourself up over it - it doesn't help. I know that people are probably saying things like "These are supposed to be the best years of your life." Well, that is a crock. I am 41 years old, and I wouldn't be a teen again for ANYTHING. When I was your age, I was depressed, I had no friends, and I was suicidal. My grades went from A's to failing. But it didn't last forever. Acupuncture helped. So did better nutrition, and practicing aikido and meditation. Frankly, just growing up and being responsible to and for myself helped, too. The rough period in my teens had an impact on my later life, (I didn't go to the best college partly due to my grades, but I didn't go to the worst, either), but I have overcome it all and am at the top of my field, have a great family, a loving spouse, and fabulous friends who feel like family to me. My life feels GREAT to me, and there was cetainly a time in my life where I thought that it, and I, was worthless.
I really feel for you, and I hope that you check out other possible medical causes for your symptoms as well. Just because you are depressed doesn't mean there aren't other, treatable reasons for you to feel sick and tired.
Take care.
people and God can turn your life around. it says that people who follow Jesus never regret it!
go to church
I suggest you seek help at your nearest church. They can probably give you a different mental orientation.
you need help , go to church
YOU CAN BE DIAGNOSED WITH ANYTHING.
YOU JUST FIT THE TYPICAL PROFILE OF EVERYTHING.
SEEMS ALL THOSE PROFESSIONAL COUNSELORS WHO DIAGNOSED YOU REALLY PUT YOU ON THE RIGHT TRACK. KEEP ON THE PATH YOUR GOING AND WE'LL SEE YOU ON THE NEXT EPISODE OF JERRY SPRINGER.
OR YOU'LL BE ANOTHER NUMBER WE USE TO PUT SOMEONE ELSE ON MEDS.
Just don't give up hope or faith. You'll pull through.
Start anew, if you just feel like giving up, think about that special person in life that we are all given a chance to find. Find that person, find happiness.
Life my friend, is but a game, and every game can be beaten. Once you beat it, you achieve happiness. The levels and bosses are the challenges and obstacles of life we must get through to attain happiness.
Keep striving, you'll beat this game one day, it's better than giving up right? Try for something, or wait for nothing.
Please go get on your knees ask God to guide you! Only you can change you!! Only you can make yourself fat. Only you can get back into shape. With a higher power and a will to have a better life you will be so glad you did it. It is normal to feel and be diagnosed with depression. You can change that. Please be good to yourself! Its your life go take a walk!!
good- you havent found sex, drugs and booze
but if you dont get a grip on it now- you will bwe soon headed down that road!
set a goal- anything, accomplishment, small and big is how you survive.
set small goals, a goal for the day, the week and the month.
be small as cleaning a room, having a civil conversation with mom/dad, to completing the class/online work. dont sweat the small stuff.
walking, small every day excersise to think and know you are working on a goal to be healthy- not thin- just healthy can be great for the body, and the mind- 20 min walk can help with the depression.
if this doesnt help and fear is pulling you farther down, maybe its time to ask to talk to someone, a professional psychologist who can help, antidepressents can also help. they can be the ones to determine if you are in need of anti depressents.
its a start.
start going for walks, and then start jogging a little bit. If you're taking online classes you're probably inside a lot -- so get a little fresh air when you can. Being outside naturally makes people happier.
Invite a friend to go for a walk with you. You haven't talked to them in a while probably, but I bet they would just love to hear from you. No one doesn't like a phone call or random text message.
Friends are so important. They don't just "go away" if they're real friends...even over time, they want to be there for you.
Church might help too, if you're looking for new friends and inspiration. Just get yourself out there. Any sort of positive change will make you feel better, I promise.
Go see a psychologist. They will listen to your problems and help you figure out everything. Your parents don't hate you. Just speak with them in a calm tone and you guys can work out this family issue as a family.
I'm not a psychiatrist... but I'm a 16 year old teenager who has felt those feelings before. I'm going for a high end of school grade and I have to committ myself. Forget your friends if they don't wanna be friends with you... what you need to ask yourself is this simple question.... Why? Why are you doing this to yourself. I'm sure you're a good person, no matter how deep you've dug yourself a hole... it's never gonna end, and you can climb out. Tell yourself that you COULD be worse off, you have a chance at something great, you could be something great! All you have to do is forgive yourself, smarten yourself up, go to school independent, forget your friends they aren't friends. If you've put on weight, well that's not gonna stop you now is it? Here's a thing... get a volunteer job at the local animal shelter or neighborhood centre:D Don't lose yourself:D If you want someone to talk to I'm here:)
first its good u recognize that you have problem. Believe or not ur not the only one in this world feeling the same thing. People are born with different fate. Some surrounded by friends some excel in something else. When it comes to friends all u can do is talk to people as much as you can. You feel the whole world hate you but actually thats not the case at all. It might be all just your imagination.
My advice to you is live a healthy life. eat proper meal do proper exercise. study properly later in life get a job. It doesnt matter how many friends you got. Be patient and keep trying hard. Never give up
Cheers
i was feeling the same way when i was your age..yet now i'm 36 and still have depressing moments from time to time. how do i survived it? simple..i have learned to let life take it's natural course.you're young, you are just beginning to find your way in..never think for one moment that your life is going down the drain as you call it.life has never been fair to anyone..always remember that!even the most successful person in the world cannot claim he's been treated fairly all his life.
we all try to find meaning into our existence..what is our purpose..it seems that there is always an empty space inside us that needs to be filled, yet we are unsure what and where to look for...only the source of life can answer your question..ASK GOD..ONLY HE CAN FILL THE EMPTINESS WITHIN YOU..WHY? BECAUSE THAT "SPACE' BELONGS TO HIM ALONE..NOBODY AND NOTHING CAN FILL THAT SPACE BUT GOD.HE IS OUR RIGHTFUL FATHER AND THAT PART OF YOUR INNER BEING IS SEEKING HIS LOVE.ONLY HE CAN FILL THE VOID DEAR.ASK HIM NOW TO FILL YOU UP AND YOU WILL NEVER FEEL ALONE AGAIN
I think its time now that u should stop thinking negative abt urself....how much ever worthless u may feel...but ur parents will never feel that u r worthless at all....even if u r realy bad too......they think ''no thats not possible,he/she is my chlid & they wouldnt do that''. thr might be some points in u which will be really good or maybe even lucky for what u r ,when u compare urself with a comparitively very much poor or unlucky or damn more worhtless than u kind of person......always problems occur when we try to compare ourself with a really good person......so always look below us &then compare and then u feel u r lucky to be urself,u r really self worth & worth for others too......the 1st thing u should do is to consult a psycologist......it will help u a lot....then try to increase ur will power....try to be confident of what u r& what u do.......may god bless u.......
You need to find something that motivates you, your reason to wake up in the morning. For some people that might be God, for others it may be a significant other or their kid, for some it may be their career, and for some it may be just a hobby, like music, sports, or exercise. I think a fundamental part of life is figuring out these motivating factors. Otherwise we just aimlessly drift through life.
Think for a while what has worked in the past. What has motivated you before when you were doing much better? You should know best (nobody here would know), but if you can't think of what motivates you, don't be afraid to ask your parents or friends. They should know. Just remember that people are not born with self-discipline, and think on how you can improve on yours. That's the very first step in taking control of your life. How do you expect to impose your will upon other people if you can't take control of your own life?