Advice please?!
Question: so i just got back from mexico and ive missed like 3 days of school this weeks, and 2 days before winter vacation
anyway im really worried and stressed about school tomorrow, cus first: my math teacher switched classes with another teacher the day after i left, and im gonna walk into my first class all confused and stupid looking, second: it was the start of the new semester on monday so i have new classes, and it'll be weird to be coming late, third: one of those new classes will be gym, and in gym, the first few days they give u a locker, and then u have to dress out like the third day, and ill be the only one in uniform and without a locker
so plz help me with my problems, and how to calm down cus im so stressed
thank you
Answers: so i just got back from mexico and ive missed like 3 days of school this weeks, and 2 days before winter vacation
anyway im really worried and stressed about school tomorrow, cus first: my math teacher switched classes with another teacher the day after i left, and im gonna walk into my first class all confused and stupid looking, second: it was the start of the new semester on monday so i have new classes, and it'll be weird to be coming late, third: one of those new classes will be gym, and in gym, the first few days they give u a locker, and then u have to dress out like the third day, and ill be the only one in uniform and without a locker
so plz help me with my problems, and how to calm down cus im so stressed
thank you
These are non issues.. Go to your math class and find-out where it's been moved to, or if you know where it is, get there and ask the teacher where you're supposed to sit now. If you want to, and are unable to talk to thee teacher before class.. simply go for an empty desk in the back and sit in it. As class starts, raise your hand and say " Hi, I wasn't here when ya'll moved.. do we have assigned seats in here? Where should I sit?"
That really shouldn't embarrass you. You're just talking to the teacher and saying you weren't there.. it's important to be ablee to ask simple questions like that without worrying about what other people think.
If you don't know what classroom to report to, then go to the front office, preferrably before school starts, I'm sure they'd have that information and at least you'd know that much when class started..
You're actually probably going to have to go to the front office for the new semester stuff anyways.. If you can get there a little early, there's NO embarrassment, at least none that I can see.
Your question was a little confusing to read, and didn't have all the details, but if it's a new semester, with new classes, why would you be trying to sit in your old math class anyways? That would be silly, and embarrassing unless your semester change doesn't include your math class? Find out at the front office.
Gym.. ok, this kinda' stuff happens.. You will be in uniform and be carrying your books. If everyone else has dressed-out for gym, I doubt the teacher would have you paricipating anyways. They're used to this kinda' thing, so chances are, you'll sit with someone else that didn't dress out, or you'll get sent to the library or something.
Either way, it's not a big deal. A lot of folks would rather not dress out anyways.
Take a deep breath and realize that, yes, your day will be different, but it's not going to be embarrassing for any more than a few seconds. The next day you'll be all caught up and blend right into the classes just fine.
Heck, you might even find out that you don't start dressing out for gym until Monday.
Just remember, this is caused by nothing you did and you had fun the other days while the kids were in class. If anything, they're just jealous, and they probably had a crappy christmas vacation. You got a few extra days to mess around? so what, ya' know?
Don't worry about the other kids.. they'll be too busy trying to make an impression on each other to notice that you're embarrassed. If nothing else, you'll find that some of them are extra friendly just because it makes them look better.
Anyways.. good luck and have fun!
Just go to school and deal with it. Everything will work itself out in a few days
well if the problem is that ur gonna feel weird and embarresed bout' wut ppl might think, 4get bout' them just do wut u hav to. who cares wut they think. tough for them
Take a deep breath and call a friend... Have them fill you in on what the new teacher is like and any other details you are worried about.. Dont stress about not having a locker or uniform, I'm sure there are others who are starting the semester late... Wake up in the morning and have a good breakfast and go at your day with a very positive attitude.. the rest will fall into place!! Good luck at school!
in the grand scheme of things, this is nothing. In 1 month it won't even matter and in 5 years you will laugh at yourself
just calm down sweetie..
life is too short to stress thingssss
its worthless..
but think about the good thingss.
guys like new girls.
lol
tell your friends at school what's up. they'll be there for you during in-between class time.
act like mexico was the ****, and your break was awesome, everyone will be wanting to talk to you and ask you questions. hold your head up high, you'll be okay.
don't worry about it.
if anybody gives you any crap, tell them you've been on vacation.
Your teachers will understand, and i'm sure they'll help you catch up.
the only way your going to look stupid, is if you act stupid.
Talk to the teacher before class, ask questions, and dont sit back, and then 20 minutes later, not know a thing he/she said.
So dont worry about it, just go with the flow.
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i know how that feels becaused i moved in the middle of semester once....it is a bad time to be late but you just need to calm down and realize it's no big deal!i'm sure noone will bug you just because you were on vacation! and besides if you dont know the people in your class anyways you'll be the highlight of their day since they're probably already bored with school....itll be fine!
Welcome to the real world. Just take it task by task, do what you have to do, and it will all work out. Try not to focus so much on what other people think. They are too busy dealing with their issues to care about your's.
you won't look stupid walking into class No worries just march right in there and say I just got back from vaccation can i have the work i missed, as for gym if no lockers are left ask a friend to share till there is one for you. no worries girl
just be your self and have confidence heck with what people think. Being yourself= less stress
Why not try to get to each class 5 minutes early so you can talk to your teachers to get everything straightened out?
You sound just like I did when I was in school. I was always panicked about the little things. What I didn't realize at the time (as I'm sure you don't either) is that everything is going to be okay. You might feel stupid walking into a new class when everybody else has gotten a chance to settle in, but NOBODY ELSE is going to think you're stupid. Gym always made me anxious to begin with, but I'm sure they have locker waiting for you already. Trust me, it won't be a big deal. Just calm down, and remember that things that seem like a huge crisis to you go unnoticed by others. You'll do just fine.
It's nice that you haven't larger problems to cope with. Count your blessings.
Don't sweat it. Any decent teacher isn't going to jump on your case and try and embarrass you the first day back. If they do, just laugh them off with confidence. They're way uncool.
Crack open your books, borrow some notes and put in some extra study time to make up what you missed so that you're up to date with your classes. Five days worth shouldn't be overwhelming. Stop worrying and DO IT.
RELAX! 3 days is nothing. I missed 23 days my senior year, and still accomplished straight A's. Write down all of the things you need to take care of at school in a planner or something accessable. Each class, approach the teacher with your problem and ask what you should do to make anything up. Teachers are prepared to offer you solutions. It's just the beginning, so just get this straightened out as soon as possible and the rest of the semester should go back to normal.
I say do some meditation...that really helps you release stress levels and feel much more calm and at peace with yourself.
good luck.