My mum is always wasted,?!
Question: should i leave her where ever she passes out or try drag her to bed?
Answers: should i leave her where ever she passes out or try drag her to bed?
Leave her. But just make sure she isn't lying on her back. She might throw up and drown in her own vomit. Gross, I know, but it happens.
This is a harsh experience but most people will tell you to leave her alone. I say just make sure she doesn`t get hurt and when she`s sober talk this out. Good luck.
depemds on where shes at. if shes outside the house or near a pool in the backyard the move her!
make sure she is on her side...if she lays on her back or stomach she could choke on her own vomit. When she sobers up tell her how you feel, get some pamphlets about alcohol abuse etc. She needs help. It isn't fair on you.
I don't know what the answer to this is.
I did a search in Google for "Children of Alcoholics" and it popped this site up.
http://www.healtalk.com/dir/55/35.php
I don't know if it is any good, or if it will give you any direction, but I hope it does something to help you.
Goodluck!!!!
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Leave her. My mum drank from when she got out of bed till she fell. So did my dad and their subsequent partners. There is no solution you can offer. But you can start by taking care of yourself. If you are a minor you might get some help through child protection services in your area. Check the net for a kids help line that is local to you, they might offer some more specific advice.
Depending on your age you could check out some independent living programs.
You may still love your mum, despite her being wasted from drugs or alcohol. But you need to look to yourself in this. Your mum has a responsibility to you that she is dumping back on you.
It might not be easy but you need to make the break. Faint hope it might even bring your mum around to review her behavior. Adults who get wasted choose to do so and kids just suffer the consequences. Even pointing out what is happening to them can just add to your problems. None of the adults in my life thought they were drunks. Yet they were drunk 90% or more of their waking hours. In fact I doubt they were ever fully sober.
Leaving does not mean you have to abandon her. Just put some distance between you and the life it offers. Let your self grow in a safe environment and maybe even spend some time in support services working out if you can help your mum. But not if you dont want to.
Be safe, be sage
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Keep her safe and warm for the time that she is passed out, then tell her tha she is being totally unfair by making you fear for her safety. You are the child not her. Threaten her with the fact that you are going to go into care if she wont sober up. As selfish as she may seem, you must let her know that she has a problem, I once did.