Part of me is fighting while the other stands beside ?!
Question: Ok, I was talking to my counselor today and I told her about the bully situation that I was having at school and the fact that someone was spreading horrible rumors about me. I also told her that part of me was wanting to take a day off, but the other part just wanted to face it and get it over with. She said that I'm like "Me and I" Me is wanting to back off but I is wanting to fight on...
I don't know if I should go tomorrow. I'm ready to face the bully AND the rumor spreader but I'm not in a way ... Weird eh ? I mean, I KNOW that taking another day off will just stir it up more and put it off basically ... but I still want to.
What should I do (sorry for the long, non-sensual question) ? Take another day off ? ARGH ?!
Answers: Ok, I was talking to my counselor today and I told her about the bully situation that I was having at school and the fact that someone was spreading horrible rumors about me. I also told her that part of me was wanting to take a day off, but the other part just wanted to face it and get it over with. She said that I'm like "Me and I" Me is wanting to back off but I is wanting to fight on...
I don't know if I should go tomorrow. I'm ready to face the bully AND the rumor spreader but I'm not in a way ... Weird eh ? I mean, I KNOW that taking another day off will just stir it up more and put it off basically ... but I still want to.
What should I do (sorry for the long, non-sensual question) ? Take another day off ? ARGH ?!
staying off tomorrow lets the bully win. i know what its like-ive been there.
you should try and chat to your counsellor again. let them read your question, and maybe the answers you get too. its great that youre getting counselling, and i really hope that it helps you.
i know exactly how you feel about not being sure whether to go to school tomorrow, but the honest truth is that you cant avoid things forever. by just getting on with things, that proves that you are a far stronger person than a bully will ever be.
hang in there. good luck
Look. Your best bet is to take a deep breath, and face this bully head on. Tell them that anything that rumor says is completely false (if the rumor IS false), and you want an apology.
If they don't do that, fight them.
Your respect and dignity should not be denied for any reason.
Don't take the day off because while your gone the rumors will get even worse, just go and face the two crap heads and beat the living snot out of them
don't take the day off
go into school and face up to this you will get more satisfaction out of going than sitting at home.
i know its hard but sometimes this is the best way to go
I suggest that you go by "Me" and face them, you may think tht things are getting bad now but they could get worse if you don't show your face and get it sorted out. As you sed, taking a day will noyl make the rumors worse because they will know that you are off and that they can spread more rumors 4 u coming bk.
Judging by ur last question, you need to dirctely face ur rumor spreader. DO NOT SPEAK 2 THEM !! If they like try and get ur attention by goin "Stop lying, you did do that" or something. Just ignore them. They don't make a difference in ur life, and if people come up 2 you saying "OMG ?! DID U ACTUALLY DO THAT ?" Just say no and say who ever did it.
Btw, when you actually go to school, you'll loose the confidence and dread it more than ever, but if you face it quickly, THATS IT ! OVER ! DONE ! VAMOOS !
Fight "Me" isntead of "I", "ME" is holding you bk.
Why postpone the inevitable? You will find all thru life there will be things you do and do not want to do,but you have to face them because they wont go away.Why not ignore the bully and just go about your business with your head held high?If it comes to a confrontation make sure you have witnesses,let the bully start it you might even be able to walk away,if the right people witness it the bully will be in trouble and you will be better off.
Is there ever a good time to go back when you are being bullied. Just attend school and face the bullies ignore the horrible rumour they have spread, if they confront you just say have you go nothing better in your life than to make up stories you must be really sad huh..... My views when I was bullied was if I say off they win, the way to bet the bullies is to be successful at school and ignore their comments feel sorry for them having to pick on you to make themselves better, they have the problem not you. Hold your head up high and attend school.
Go to school tomorrow and face that little tramp and put him in his place. Staying off school will sort nothing it's only as you say yourself putting it off. Get it over with for once and for all. Because that's life and there are bullies in every walk of life, this is only your first stand, so make it a good one. I am not suggesting for one second that you should be violent, just be assertive, be positive you know you are being wronged!!!!. Everything will be okay just you wait and see. You will be respected no matter what for facing up to him.
The Best of Luck Burns.